Black gold!

“It’s black and hot!

Da demand always high never low!

You can pay for it in gold! 

Of course you can eat it! Tis not just for show!”

In the novel ‘The Golden Road: How Ancient India Transformed the World’ by William Dalrymple; he tells us about this commodity which was perhaps one of the most precious things ever!

Now you can simply find it on your table and you may not even think twice before using it like a ‘King’!

There were times when this was bought with so much money that a country’s budget had a percentage of the share!

read on!

Do not worry! The commodity I am speaking of is something which is so common for Indians that we never realise it is so precious! The pepper!

The most common confusion we always have is which is the salt and which is the pepper! When it is inside a covered that is!

Go to any grand hotel and if there are a couple of shakers then rest assured the first one you would pour will be pepper!

Even if it has lesser holes which is apparently how you distinguish from the salt shaker!

After some time the salt just stops flowing! While the one commodity you want in lesser amount, the pepper just flows!

Of course the pepper is something my daughter loves to remove from her Pongal or from the vada! It is put with relish while cooking and removed with equal relish while eating!

If you have a cold or sore throat, my mother would announce that she is making Milagga rasam! Though here Milagga is chilly in literal translation, the actual spice they put is pepper! 

Even garam masala has this as the major spice and most sambar powders or rasam powders and those powders whose recipe has been kept in secret has pepper as the chief element or one of the important element!

You cannot make khara pongal without pepper!

I still remember my history teacher telling us how pepper was a very valuable spice and I used to think we have it every other day! And NO! I did not think of collecting all the pepper corns from my pongal and selling them!

But in the history of trading of spices, it has been shown that pepper was the king!

Known as the “King of Spices”, pepper was the most important spice traded internationally. Pepper was one the earliest commodities that was traded between the orient and Europe. In medieval times, pepper frequently changed hands as rent, dowry and tax!

Used whole or cracked or powdered, pepper affords many health benefits. Its taste and the unmistakable flavor it add to foods were among the reasons that it was highly prized in ancient times and even now!

Pepper cultivation began thousands of years ago in India, where it was native, and it was soon introduced to the major islands of Indonesia by traders.

Two species of pepper were domesticated: long pepper (Piper longum) in the northeast of India and black pepper (Piper nigrum) in the southwest. Long pepper was the most popular pepper in Rome because of its greater pungency, while black pepper dominated in medieval Europe because it was more readily available to traders. Long pepper is now mostly forgotten.

Pepper was a key component in the ancient Ayurvedic system of medicine.

There are numerous records of pepper’s medical use in India that date back at least 3000 years! 

The encyclopedia Britannica states how Pepper was a key component in the ancient Ayurvedic system of medicine. It also found its way to China in antiquity. There is written evidence that it was being traded overland from India to Sichuan Province by the 2nd century BCE. Pepper is also mentioned in histories of the Han Dynasty (202 BCE – 220 CE) published in the 5th century CE and in a Tang Dynasty account four centuries later. Pepper was probably brought to China from India initially for medicinal purposes, but it did not take long for it to become an important spice in food!

Egyptians used pepper and it is known that there was active trade between India and Arabia by that time, and the Egyptians were sending ships down the Nile to what they called the Land of Punt to obtain exotic goods like frankincense, myrrh, and cinnamon!

The author in the novel states how people used to pay in millions and even billions for the trade and that has been recorded as trading receipts! Apparently there was one rich man who used to complain how the amount of pepper his cook puts in the dish may even bankrupt him!

So the next time you remove those peppercorns from your Pongal just know how valuable they actually are! Valuable also are indian ‘brains!’ Like the birthday celebrity Sir Chandrasekhara Venkata Raman! Now he is ‘Export Material!’

Now let us put some salt and pepper on the salad and eat and then sleep!

Shubh Ratri!

What you looking for!

“I looked everywhere but it was not there!
The discovery eluded my quest!
Little did I know that what I seek
Is within me and is the best!”


How a Tiger disappearing into a ‘rock’ and how the curiosity of an English officer paved the way of discovery of one of the biggest tourist attraction in Maharashtra!

It was a rediscovery of history of sorts!

read on!

In the novel ‘The Golden Road: How Ancient India Transformed the World’ by William Dalrymple; among other things, he talks about this amazing tiger hunting party!

There are so many books and novels written by Indian authors in their own native languages mentioning the glory of Bharat and how the ancient Universities like Nalanda were among the peak of education at the time! The mega university was so imposing and world renowned that people all over the world used to flock to it for education!

We were literally teaching the world! But education without protection is waste because at The End Of 12th Century Invader Bakhityar Khilji Demolished the Monastery, Killed The Monks And Burned The Valuable Library!

Then again this is not about Nalanda which may need a hundred blogs just to cover the foundation!

The tragedy is until an englishman or ‘firangi’ tells or writes about the great history of India or Bharat; no one really cares!

The colonial mindset is difficult to shake!

Nevertheless, it is slowly changing!

Even the introduction of his book would give you goosebumps if you are a true Indian! And this story was a part of just the introduction!

The audio book is close to 14 hours long so watch out for more!

So the story goes that a young officer called Smith was chasing a tiger with his team when suddenly it went into a ravine and simply disappeared into the wall!

Though initially dazed at that! Smith recovered his senses and investigated the disappearing wall!

When he went near he saw that the big stone wall actually had an entrance! It was a man made (or woman!) cave!

Further investigation and more clearing of the vegetation revealed more caves! But even that was not amazing! What was amazing were the paintings inside the caves with vivid description of the life and times of budha made so eloquently!

Now these caves are a world heritage site called the Ajanta caves!

These Ajanta Caves are 30 rock-cut Buddhist cave monuments dating from the second century BCE to about 480 CE in Aurangabad district of Maharashtra state in India.
They are Universally regarded as masterpieces of Buddhist religious art, the caves include paintings and rock-cut sculptures described as among the finest surviving examples of ancient Indian art, particularly expressive paintings that present emotions through gesture, pose and form!

The Caves constitute ancient monasteries (Viharas) and worship-halls (Chaityas) of different Buddhist traditions carved into a 75-metre (246 ft) wall of rock.
The caves also present paintings depicting the past lives and rebirths of the Buddha, pictorial tales from Aryasura’s Jatakamala or the Jataka tales! and rock-cut sculptures of Buddhist deities!

Of course with all the pomp and translation the glory is forgotten! But like the ever shining gold, the shine will remain! Like how birthday celebrity Karan Dewan and his golden acts will never be forgotten!

Now plan a trip to Ajantha sometime in the future and sleep!

Shubh Ratri!

Murophobia!

“Look around and run!
Having pests is no fun!
Set the trap and simply trot!
Just hope to god twil be caught!”


Do you know what is the common thing between an Elephant, Frank Costanza from Seinfeld, Dr Henry Jones (The Father of Indiana Jones!) and Bloodsport (The member of the suicide squad!)?

Well, they all have murophobia!

Intrigued!?

Read on!

It was the year 2002 and we were just fresh from Internship and we all were preparing night and day for the entrance examination once again!

Then one of my friend Suggested that our Thalaiva; Rajni (who else!) had a movie coming up and it had a scene in which they had ‘imported’ a very amazing tree and what not! It also had a Japanese actress and Manisha Koirala!

Of course we did not need any details since after all it was Rajni!

The issue was we had to get up very early in the morning and stand in the queue! There was no advance booking those days and even if there was am sure we would either not know or afford it!

So early morning we took a bus and reached one of the two theatres showing the movie!

The line was already forming but we were not very far from the window so we knew we could get in! All we had to do was wait!

Then after some time the regulars turned up! Rajni songs were sung and played and danced on!

The regular mega fan came with his attire of Rajni and is mannerisms! It was a grand show even before the movie!

Then after a long wait which made people start commenting that the movie is either delayed or cancelled the reel came in a big chariot like vehicle just for show!

We all jumped for joy! The ticket window opened just then and we all rushed in!
Songs from Padayappa, Basha and Thalapathy were heard from everywhere!

Now the theatre was this old one which we never visited in the morning but only for the night or evening show! We somehow found our seats in the darkness and sat!
Then the moment the lights and AC was turned on, a loud noise was heard which was the banging of seats and similar to marching soldiers! It was coming closer and closer and then when everyone looked down with horror we saw RATS!

There were at least a hundred rats who were suddenly disturbed by us! They were nicely munching the old popcorn and other food stuff people would have dropped from their seats! Then when the lights were turned on they ran!

It took close to a minute for them all to rush down and disappear behind the screen! We put our legs up the seat and simply held on!

The movie was mediocre but some dialogues were really amazing like, Known is a drop and unknown an ocean! But what I remember most clearly were the rats!

And yes! Murophobia is the fear of rats! The fear of mice and rats is one of the most common specific phobias.

It is sometimes referred to as musophobia (from Greek “mouse”) or murophobia (a coinage from the taxonomic adjective “murine” for the family Muridae that encompasses mice and rats, and also Latin mure “mouse/rat”), or as suriphobia, from French souris, “mouse”!

The stories where we see even elephants getting scared of rats have found to be valid in experiments where they have been known to avoid rats! Now when even an elephant is scared of them then me being terrified of them is natural though I have caught and ‘disposed’ of some when we had rat problem in our old house! It was not a good feeling!

Of course talking about feeling and not rats reminds me of Bryan Adams! And don’t worry; the rats will not RUN TO YOU!

Now don’t worry, the rats are sleeping! You can too!

Shubh Ratri!

Hebbian theory


“Tell me Tenali do you know the number!
Of the bangles your wife wears everyday?!
Yes my lord! The moment you tell me
The number of steps you climbed today!”

Have you ever wondered how when you drive a car, you would automatically flip the turn signal when you turn and/or lock the car when you get out!?

Many time you may not remember the instant but these acts become automatic after a while! You do not have to think about them! Do not think!
It is natural!

The autobots and AI learning also follow the same theory which also involves death and elimination! A forgivable cruelty!

It is called the Hebbian theory!

read on!

While training for surgery like the Cochlear Implantation; it was always taught to us that the best results are obtained when the surgery is done below the age of 5.

This is because of a phenomenon called Neuroplasticity.

Have you noticed that as an adult when you try to learn a new language, it is really difficult. You may still over a period of time learn it but it may not be as normal or without accent if you had learnt the language as a child!

You need to practice and train and then only by repeated practice the language develops or a new skill develops over a period of time and remember that this new ‘skill’ may be still be there but it can get reduced if you do not practice!

That is the simplest practical proof of the Hebbian Theory!

The Hebbian theory was introduced by Donald Hebb in his 1949 book The Organization of Behavior. It is a widely known neuroscientific theory which explains that an increase in synaptic efficacy arises from repeated and persistent stimulation of a postsynaptic cell! This theory explains what is known as neuroplasticity, the adaptation of brain neurons during the learning process.

Like mentioned above a good example is the ability to drive not only a car but even a plane! When you start out, everything you do is incredibly deliberate. You remind yourself to turn on your indicator, to check your blind spot, and so on. However, after years of experience, these processes become so automatic that you perform them without even thinking!

Hebb’s theory postulated that the neurophysiological changes underlying learning and memory occur in three stages: (1) synaptic changes; (2) formation of a “cell assembly”; and (3) formation of a “phase sequence,” which link the neurophysiological changes underlying learning and memory.

Hebb’s concept describes a basic mechanism for synaptic plasticity.
In his book, Hebb stated that “When an axon of cell A is near enough to excite cell B and repeatedly or persistently takes part in firing it, some growth process or metabolic change takes place in one or both cells such that A’s efficiency, as one of the cells firing B, is increased.”

In one word it has been summarized by Mo Gawdat in his novel Scary smart as, “The neurons that fire together wire together!”

So what about the death or killing or elimination!? Well that also happens when you do not use your skills for a while!

As an example, it might seem incredibly difficult to memorise the entire multiplication table, however, as you practice recalling the information for months or years the knowledge becomes easily accessible and almost automatic. This is because neural pathways associated with the multiplication table become stronger and faster.

The strengthening of connections between neurons can be compared to the growth of muscles, the more a muscle is used the more it strengthens and grows. Stronger muscles allow us to perform certain activities more efficiently!

This is also the reason why we ask our hearing aid patients to use the aids as much as possible since that makes sure that the nerves stay active and the loss is not worsened!

Cell assemblies can be strengthened through repeated activation, forming a neural pathway, a group of interconnected cells, activation of which represents information stored in long-term memory.



The pathways and neurons that are frequently used are strengthened, while the pathways that are not used are gradually pruned or eliminated.
Since you haven’t used this information in a while, the neural pathways representing this memory became weaker or get eliminated completely!

This is like how it was shown in the movie ‘inside out!’ It is literally out of sight is out of mind and memory! This basically means that even your brain is like the OLX meter! Any information which is not used for some period of time is slowly stored back in some corner attic and finally deleted! That is how your house or rather brain remains tidy!

Now this is a normal brain like yours and mine! Imagine the amount of processing which the brain of ‘the Human computer’ Shakuntala Devi would be doing!? That thought may give me a migraine!

Now do not think that automation would work all the time! So place your alarm and make sure you have turned the lights and other switches off before you sleep!
Shubh ratri!

Star star everywhere!


“Just a sketch Not great by any stretch!
Still it’s something we all can draw at par!
All you need is a open mind then a paper!
Cross the vees and lo! You have a star!”

One of the commonest ‘doodles’ which everyone used to draw was the star! The two V and then joining them! It was a very easy one to draw and anyone could draw them!

Did you know that there is a beach where the sand grains are not only unique but they are all shaped like stars!

Intrigued!?

read on!

So in every painting competition which we used to have every other quarter the morning session was blocked!

I used to love getting the water colours since they were cheap and good and easy to use!

Many of our ‘serious’ painters had their assortments of paints like the oil colours or acrylic and what not!

They even had so many different brushes and ‘palettes’!

I used to use the one with the water colours!

Occasionally I used to paint some cartoons or sometimes it would be some ‘educational’ material till I found out that my paintings were renamed as those done by my art teacher’s son and sent to competitions!
I should feel proud that she used to select only the ‘good’ ones to put her son’s name!

Of course the moment I realised this, I stopped painting seriously and that’s that. Whatever sketch I do right now is pure practice and there is no inbuilt talent there whatsoever…

But I still remember how my friends used to finally fill the spaces with doodles! The most popular ones were the ‘star’ and if the painting was of a landscape then it would be a curved ‘v’ which would look like birds flying in the distant sky!

The stars were also used in posters and cards! Even when we had to decorate a project or art work the stars came to the rescue to fill the page! Another most popular doodle in the later years was the heart! But the star was always a star!

The best thing about it was you can make it any way you want and it will always come out well! No one cares about symmetry which is the best thing about the stars!

Now did you know that there are beaches where the sand colour is green! Well that is another blog! For now read about this amazing beach which is the rarest beach in the world!


The star sand, is both a beautiful sight and a scientific marvel. Found on the Taketomi, Hatoma, and Iriomote islands of Japan, star sand is exactly what the name implies — small, millimeter-sized pieces of sand in the shape of stars!

At first glance, the beaches look like any other. Only when you take a closer look at the beach they stand on does it become clear that this is a unique beach!

Despite the small size of the sand particles,you would have no problem seeing this incredible five-pointed star shape with the naked eye!

Unlike most beaches, the sand on Hoshizuna Beach and other surrounding Japanese beaches is made up not of rocks and minerals, but rather of the remnants of previous organisms. Each little star is the exoskeleton of small, single-celled organisms known as Foraminifera!

As the waves roll in on the beach, the water carries with it the shells and exoskeletons of these tiny organisms, constructing the unique shoreline.
This particular, star-shaped species of Foraminifera, known as Baculogypsina sphaerulata, is found only in the coral reefs of East Asia, making this special sand shape one of the rarest in the world!

Maybe if we doodle star a lot then one fine day would get to see this amazing beach of stars!
A star of a different kind of course is birthday celebrity Matthew McConaughey!

Now try to sketch a star and sleep!
Shubh Ratri!

I can’t understand what you say!

“The group had a code the lingo was known!
Listen and understand don’t need no phone!
Then the pair came and went off the mark!
What they spoke kept everyone in the dark!”

You are with a bunch of people and suddenly couple of them start talking in their native language! If they know that you do not know that language then rest assured; you are being excluded!

Imagine this happening and then I will tell you about FB’s greatest secret (open that is!); names Alice and Bob!

Rest assured, it is interesting!

read on!

The advantage of being a polyglot is that even if people want to exclude you it is difficult!

When I joined the Medical College, during our initial interactions with the seniors I used to tell them that I was a Tamilian which is true of course! But the added point is that I am a Palakkad Tamilian which is actually a mixture of Tamil and Malayalam!

So I may not able to speak like a malayalee but I could understand everything! Even when I pretended to have a cough spasm on their smoking and they were discussing whether I was ‘acting’ or not!

In school also, when kids get to know that I am from south or a ‘madrassi!’ and speak in Hindi so that I do not understand! It never worked!

Then a couple of friends used to chat in Marathi which I used to find difficult to understand but still could manage!

The very fact that you have a group of people and if couple of them start talking in a language that only they understand is of course rude! When this happens it is natural that the ones who are being excluded would have the feeling that they are the ones who are being targeted!

It is natural to think that when they cannot understand the lingo, the whole world is talking about them! This is because the most important person in the world for you is…drum roll please!…YOU!

Now imagine this happening to the engineers who actually invented these chatbots!

This is what happened in Facebook! Alice and Bob were actually Facebook’s artificially intelligent chatbots that were shut down after they started talking to each other in a language that they invented!

So Facebook challenged its chatbots to try to negotiate with each other over a trade – a reasonably benign task that we will probably assign to machines in the near future!

Quickly, the bots, Alice and Bob, appeared to chat at each other in a strange language that was mostly incomprehensible to humans!

The dialogue was not simply a glitch in the way the messages were read out. The way the chatbots kept stressing their own name appeared to have mathematical significance, making it part of their negotiation method!

The bots managed to cut some deals which indicated that they might have formed a kind of shorthand that allowed them to talk more effectively – good for the task at hand, but creepy for the rest of the engineers who could not figure out this interesting mutation in language skills that Bob and Alice seemed to have invented in no time at all!

I have reproduced the chats as it was!

Bob: i can i i everything else . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Alice: balls have zero to me to me to me to me to me to me to me to me to Bob: you i everything else . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Alice: balls have a ball to me to me to me to me to me to me to me
Bob: i i can i i i everything else . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Alice: balls have a ball to me to me to me to me to me to me to me
Bob: i . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Alice: balls have zero to me to me to me to me to me to me to me to me to Bob: you i i i i i everything else . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Alice: balls have 0 to me to me to me to me to me to me to me to me to Bob: you i i i everything else . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
Alice: balls have zero to me to me to me to me to me to me to me to me to

Of course the engineers reached out the kill switch and shut them down!
If you could understand what they were speaking about then please let us know! Also if you could understand them then there is a high possibility that you are also an AI! If you are not then try to tell the original song of the birthday celebrity Anu Mallik called Roop Suhana lagta hain!

Now try to speak to humans and sleep!
Shubh ratri!

Remember me!?

They may be your uncle or aunt albeit a little far!
Then again course they may not be a star!
So when they stun you with that query you shiver you see!
The dreaded question, “Do you remember me!”

I have never answered this question correctly!

When someone closes your eyes from behind and asks; “Guess who!?”

A recent movie called Meiyazhagan made everyone including me nostalgic! If you have not seen it yet; well, do it after you read the blog!

One of the few movies of recent times which you can see with family sans the ‘drink’ part which I would never approve!

Nostalgia, family and being open!

read on!

I love weddings! The fun and the planning and the food!

There are many groups of people in a wedding who are attendees!
One group would get a center prime spot and everyone would come to them! They would get up only for food and their circle slowly goes on increasing!
They would either be the eldest of the family or the most ‘influential’! The weight and the age also are important factors here! They are usually serious looking and smile only when you approach them!

The other group would move around! They are like a river who would have a round! They would know everyone! They are always full of smiles and they are usually happy or at least look happy!

The ones who sit in the front are usually the close relatives who would be the ones in case you need any help! It can be taking care of the changing or storage room key or keeping the ‘important bag’ safe!

The ones who sit in the end are the ones who have come only to give ‘attendance’ and may come only for the reception and stay away from the actual wedding!

The kids would be running around while the older ‘kids’ would group together for snaps! The amount of efforts girls and ladies put to their attires would be so much while the boys would be just the opposite!

This was good for me since all I had to do was wear a clean new looking dress! No fuss!

The most dangerous would be those ‘aunties’ who would then suddenly corner you and ask, “Remember me!?”

Oh how I would dread those words!

If mom was nearby then it was easy since she would always give the answer! Otherwise it was tricky!

If the auntie was smiling and she approaches you then rest assured she is from your mother’s side! Dad’s side would ‘allow’ you to approach them!
Then you have to see the approximate age! In all probability she had to be one of the many cousins of your mother or father!

All you have to say is “oh yes! you are Mom’s…” Just that start is enough most of the time since even the auntie sometimes may not really know you!

I would usually say that and escape!

Of course this is an open secret since many do not know each other in a big wedding! So all you have to do is smile and carry on!

If you know someone well then increase the smile which is encouragement to talk and if you do not remember someone then simply reduce the smile intensity, fish out your phone and scoot!

Luckily you must also know that most of the time people would like to announce themselves! Like do you know who I am is usually followed by, I used to take care or your Mother or Father as a kid! Or words like I know your mother or father when she or he were so little or young like you! In that case you really do not have to know them! It would be lucky if your parents themself remembered those old aunties and uncles!

The most important rule is that there is a long time to be spent while having food so make sure you have food only with those people whom you know well! Or else you are trapped! Then the only way out is to go on stuffing your mouth with food or cough!

Then I guess it is all worth it when the plantain leaf meal is served! The taste is something well worth the trouble of going through ‘remember me’ relatives and friends! Just remember that everyone is finally a distant relative to you! By the way did you know that the birthday celebrity Vangipurapu Venkata Sai Laxman or V V S Laxman is the great-grandnephew of India’s second President Sarvepalli Radhakrishnan!

Now even if you forget or do not remember whose that person is in the wedding, like one of my friend please do not forget whose wedding it is!

On that note remember to set the alarm and sleep!
Shubh Ratri!

Happy Deepawali!

“The lights oh the lights! They make you smile!

To even look at them snacks it takes a while!

Burn them crackers even if a few!

I Wish happy deepawali to your family and you!”

Lights, sweets and sound!

That’s deepawali in three words!

For more read on!

Growing up we had only two Deepawali; the badi and the choti!

In the choti or smaller Deepawali the chief function or duty for everyone was to clean the house!

While the badi was for the big bangs! 

Since we used to be in army quarters which used to change so frequently that we never got attached to one house; cleaning was only superficial at least for me!

Later on when we got our own house, cleaning became a chore! The dusting and the cleaning of the hidden areas of the house used to start one week before!

Temple was the last to be cleaned and the lamps used to get their regular bath with the tamarind or one special powder made for them!

The making of the sweets and savouries or bhakshanam used to start one week before and the whole house used to have the aroma of hot ghee!

I used to love coming home to the smell of ghee, camphor and incense stick! One of my most favourite odours after the Petrichor is the smell of burnt wood after puja! Whenever we used to do Satyanarayana Puja in our house, the smell of charcoal and the ‘Havan’ used to be there in everything for at least some days! I love that smell!

Then the most famous Mysore Pak made by my mother used to be the last thing she used to make with fresh besan and Ghee brought to her specifications and place! It was not soft but hard! That was the way I like my Mysore pak! Even now wherever I see Mysore pak, I buy some only to taste it and waste them! No shop has come close to the ones my mother used to make…I do not think any other Mysore Pak would taste like my mother’s…

Evening time was lighting the amazing earthen lamps which used to be so cheap to buy! We used to go to the nearby market and be amazed at how many of those we could buy with so little money!

Then arranging them all over the house was a special joy! My mother always used to say that it will rain! And it did! Maybe it was to make sure we do not burn our fingers while lighting the lamp or the crackers! But then it used to be a drizzle and that would never dampen our enthusiasm!

I have never been a foodie so all the snacks were a waste for my dad and me! My brother used to enjoy gobbling those and so did my cousins! 

It was usually our house for the grand get together of the family cousins and uncles and we used to have a blast for deepawali in all sense!

And lighting the crackers and those special bombs was our favourite!

We initially used to go to our club to see the great spectacular cracker show and then our ‘Jeweller’ ‘seth’ neighbour would burst his thousand crackers and we used to have our own stocks! Like an ECG the enthusiasm to burst them used to go up and down!

Some bigger bombs used to go first and mom and others would light the sparklers and flower pots and the zameen chakras! The way they used to turn and sparkle was a treat to watch!

In between my dad and sometimes me would try to show off with the bijli bombs! Light them with our hand and throw them! They used to be so cheap and so many but half of them would not light so it was pure luck!

Some of them would burst so close which used to stun us for a while but then we were Professionals you see!

Then my brother would dig up some old bottle and start his rocket show!

It used to be fun to see many times rockets ending up in odd places! Luckily though we never had any major accidents!

In the end me and my brother used to simply go to the terrace and watch the amazing rockets with their amazing colours! Just sit there and marvel at the marvel!

After the whole neighbourhood used to get quite we used to collect all the papers and left overs and have a nice little bonfire! 

The last light of the Deepawali! An escaped Bijli bomb would then become alive and show his mettle with a sound much to our delight! 

In our apartment also we had this mega celebration! Everyone used to get their crackers and we used to have so much fun! In the beginning everyone would have a candle or match! Then everyone used to share the one candle which used to bravely stay lit!

With so many varieties all we had to do was burst ours and watch the amazing spectacle! We also had fire and other safety services in site! Luckily we never had to use them!

Like the way I used to spend my time in the terrace with my brother looking at the rockets; me, wife and kids now used to have a nice walk of the neighbourhood! The colourful lights from the balcony used to be one of the most beautiful sights ever!  

Coming home to a house full of sweet and snacks was the norm! Even the son papdi was welcome and eaten with relish! At least on that day! Deepawali is simply a celebration of life and unity! Unity reminds me of the birthday celebrity Vallabhbhai Jhaverbhai Patel or Sardar! 

A dedication to him on this bright festival!

Have so much light in your life!

Wish all of you a very happy Deepawali!

Shubh ratri!

No smoking!

“Starts with a puff then life’s rough
Just one time is enough!
Don’t try to use it for cheap thrills!
It’s common sense! Smoking kills!”

The other day, there was this patient who was accepting and nodding his head for every instruction of mine much to my delight!

Normally they would be a little hesitant and confused and take information slowly!

Then cheerfully, he asked; “Doctor, can I smoke occasionally!?”

Happiness down the drain or gone like a puff of…do not say it!

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I put my hands over my head and told him, “Which real doctor would ever tell you that smoking is ok!?”

If the patient was a young kid even then it could have been accepted but I would never expect an adult to ask me such a question!

The more tragic part is that this is not the first time!

In Bharat I guess no one would ask this to the doctor especially if he or she is a smoker because of those photos we see on top of the cigarette packets which have been mandated by the government!

Every movie screened in India also has the tobacco warning and so does any scene with the actors smoking or drinking! Drink will be dealt in another blog!

But in other countries the warning is either not so obvious or not even there which is maybe why these questions come! Smoking and now the horrible Vaping is actually started become a fad with even kids getting on the habit with the parents either not bothered or unable to do anything!

This actually shows the strength of the tobacco industry who are actually giving everyone one of the worst carcinogens in the world and charging the customers for it! Brilliant!

Even when tobacco was actually identified a possible cause of lung cancer in early medical literature of the late 1800s but only by a select few brave physicians!

The first published piece of literature attributing cigarette smoking to the growing incidence of lung cancer was in 1912, when Dr. Isaac Adler opined that as cigarette smoking increased, so did the number of cases of lung cancer! But the intense lobbying by the most powerful industry made sure that this was not highlighted!

It would not be until 1950 that medical research would reveal that tobacco was the most significant cause of lung cancer.

Landmark studies by Doll and Hill in 1950 in the United Kingdom and Hammond and Horn in 1954 in the United States forced the discipline of epidemiology to officially recognize cigarette smoking as the primary cause of lung cancer!

Subsequent lung cancer research demonstrating the link between cigarette smoking and lung cancer prompted the U.S. Surgeon General and Medical Research Council of the United Kingdom to publically issue official public health reports condemning the cigarette habit as dangerous to health!

If you must give Nobel or Peace prize to anyone, it must be for these amazing people who bought the evidence to light and made it as open as possible!

There were times when the tobacco industry had so much power (they still do!) that they had even urged medical personnels to advice smoking to relieve stress! Even women, teens and children were targeted as potential customers with varying degrees of success!

During the World War I as well as World War II, cigarettes were given to soldiers in their ration packages and tobacco use increased 346% by 1920. Soldiers who were abstainers from tobacco came back from both World Wars addicted to cigarettes!
Tobacco companies even expanded their aggressive cigarette marketing to women as early as 1918, as a symbol of “liberation and equality” ! They even had a tagline for that later on called, “You have come a long way, baby!”!

Even in movies, the ‘manly’ guys always used to smoke! The other non ‘manly’ guys like me were shown to cough when asked to smoke!

Even in my hostel, the macho dudes were the ones with the smoke in the hand especially during the exam time! There were some guys whose rooms were not visible because of the smoke! This was also because during the exam times not many could afford cigarettes apparently! Instead they used to get the BIDI! That was a bunch of smoke which was so cheap apparently! Of course you had to smoke more to get the same ‘effect’! Also it had no filter!

During my first week in the hostel my senior took a huge puff and blew the smoke over me during a ‘session’! I held my neck and told him that I am not able to breath! I was fine since I actually tolerate the smell of cigarette really well and can recognise it even in little quantity! But that one ‘act’ spread like, well, ‘smoke!’ and the seniors stopped smoking when they were having a ‘session’ with me!

So, smoking does not make anyone ‘macho’; it only makes them a fool! You are not smoking the cigarette, the cigarette is smoking your life slowly!
Even on gunpoint, I cannot have the heart to tell anyone that smoking once in a while is ok, since it is NOT!
Smoking is worse than a nuclear bomb since nuclear energy can still be used for good! Speaking of nuclear energy brings into mind the birthday celebrity and father of nuclear science in India; Homi Jehangir Bhabha!

Now do the one good habit which is easy to do! Sleep on time!
Shubh ratri!

Time management


“The baby is all smiles since ignorance is bliss!
But when ‘it’ goes then you will surely feel something amiss!
It is everyone’s property not yours or mine!
Tis not money or gold! But your precious time!”


The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen R Covey is like the go to reference book for many self help gurus and motivators!

There is a table in the book which is both the secret of success and a key to time management!

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As you grow older and your life becomes a ‘schedule’ you would finally realise that the most important commodity in the world is something everyone has but in limited quantity!

This does not differentiate between gender or race or even your bank balance!

If you have it then you can do everything and can get anything if you try!

But if you do not have it or have less of it then even if you are the richest person in the world, you cannot do anything!

As the sage introduces this wheel in the amazing serial Mahabharat which is floating in the sky! He calls himself; SAMAY!

Yes! Time!

We all know time and tide wait for none, but remember that the ‘tide’ can still come back as another tide! But time once gone is lost forever!

Which is why managing your time is one of the most important things in the world! You cannot play with time!

In the seven habits, Stephen tells about this table! This tries to make you more prepared to handle your task.

Covey talks about what is important versus what is urgent.
Imagine this table has four quadrants;

Priority should be given in the following order:

Quadrant I. Urgent and important – important deadlines and crises; this is the work which HAS TO BE DONE AS SOON AS POSSIBLE!

Quadrant II. Not urgent but important– long-term development; this work must feature in your future PLAN!

Quadrant III. Urgent but not important – distractions with deadlines; This work can be done by anyone else so it is better to DELEGATE!

Finally Quadrant IV. Not urgent and not important constitute work which are simply frivolous distractions! These must be ELIMINATED!

The order is important, says Covey: after completing items in quadrant I, people should spend the majority of their time on II, but many people spend too much time in III and IV. The calls to delegate and eliminate are reminders of their relative priority!

Now similar to this distribution; the guides to time management also have a table based on what is called the “Eisenhower Method” or “Eisenhower Principle”. This utilizes the principles of importance and urgency to organize priorities and workload!

This method stems from a quote attributed to Dwight D. Eisenhower: “I have two kinds of problems, the urgent and the important. The urgent are not important, and the important are never urgent!

Though this was his quote, the original was by a colleague of Eisenhower who has been uncredited or unrecognised for now!

However using this same principle time management is developed by evaluation of tasks! The table is similar to the one described by Stephen and the boxes are called “Eisenhower Box” or “Eisenhower Decision Matrix”!

The classification and handling is similar and goes like this;

Important/Urgent quadrant tasks are done immediately and personally like crises and deadlines

Important/Not Urgent quadrant tasks get an end date and are done personally like relationships, planning and recreation.

Unimportant/Urgent quadrant tasks are delegated like interruptions, meetings and activities. and finally

Unimportant/Not Urgent quadrant tasks are dropped like time wasters! These can include stuff you can say NO to! Even if it is your own Boss’s marriage! Remember that he or she will get married if you are there or not!
Time management would have been an apt skill for birthday celebrity Tiruchirapalli Srinivasan Rangarajan, professionally credited by his pseudonym Vaali since he had written over 15000 songs!

Now night TIME is to sleep!

Shubh ratri!