Don’t be IM patient!

This may seem familiar especially to Patients!

So many times someone would come with complains of say Right ear pain.

The doctor would check the nose, throat, even chest and even the left ear while the patient keeps on telling that it is the RIGHT EAR which is having issues!

The patient would think the doctor has hearing loss himself or herself!

Once a patient even remarked in his own language to himself that the doctor is checking all over instead of the ‘Organ’ which is causing the issue!

Sometimes I even clean the wax and other discharge from the ‘normal’ ear taking my own time (according to the patient!) much to the chagrin of the already tensed patient!

Finally when we see the particular organ with the issue you can feel the relief of the patient!

If you are a patient then you must understand that this is the major difference between a senior and a junior doctor!

The senior or experienced doctor would never examine the affected part first! There are many reasons for this;

All other parts such as the nose and the throat are linked to each other and MUST be examined to get a proper diagnosis! Even if you have ear pain, the problem may be a nasal obstruction or even a referred pain from the throat! This is true for most body systems! No organ or body part works in isolation! They are all a part of the unit! Of course you do have specialists and super specialists now, but the fact of the matter is that the Body is one UNIT!

Another issue is that if the affected area is infected then there is a very high chance of spreading the infection if that area is inspected first! Which is why the infected part MUST be examined last! This is also true when we do the cleaning for surgery! The infected and non infected parts are kept as distant as possible and cleaned separately!

If the affected area is having pain and the patient is a child then he or she may not show other areas since examination of the affected area will cause pain!

Most important is that once you find a finding in the area pointed out by the patient, you may MISS out other important SILENT findings in other areas! Once I got a patient who had very obviously placed a plastic bead on the nose! Luckily I examined the ears first and found more in each of the ears! Nothing in the mouth though!

Another important thing you must realize is that every doctor has a set pattern of examination regardless of the symptom. He or she would ‘cover’ all the areas and then come to the area of YOUR concern! All you got to do is have patience!

Many times it does happen that in your stress you would forget that the doctor had seen the other ear! After cleaning the ‘affected’ ear the patient would ask about the ‘other’ normal area much to our chagrin now completely forgetting that we had seen the normal ear first!

In any case, every medical examination normally has to follow a systematic approach starting from the history to inspection to palpation and finally auscultation!

This is also important to establish a baseline trust especially if it is a minor or tense patient!

So all you have to do is be PATIENT! We will get to the point by the end of the century!

Anyways that’s just how some do their duty! Which reminds me of T N Sheshan!


Another day new stories!

Shubh ratri!

Familiarity principle…

The other day I was doing my work and my brother was playing this song on the tube called Dwapara in Kannada! 

The start was not so profound but there was the second main rhyme which really got my attention and how! I have not stopped listening to it since then! 

You will be surprised to know that it has been sung by a Singh in Kannada and the Dwapara refers to the Dwapara Yuga of Krishna! The familiarity of the soft tunes and the beautiful lyrics really hit the right spots on my musically inclined brain!

Then I realized that I like it because of the  familiarity principle!

This is also called the mere exposure effect!

The mere exposure effect, also known as the familiarity principle, is a psychological phenomenon where people develop a preference for things simply because they are familiar with them!

Apparently from an evolutionary perspective, the brain associates familiarity with safety. If a stimulus is encountered repeatedly without negative consequences, it is perceived as non-threatening!

Repeated exposure makes it easier for the brain to process a stimulus. This ease, or “fluency,” creates a positive feeling that the brain often misinterprets as a genuine preference for the object itself.

A common example is seeing a brand’s logo or hearing its jingle repeatedly makes it more likely you will choose that brand over an unfamiliar competitor!

People generally find others more likable and attractive the more often they see them, even if no direct conversation occurs. Like your neighbor or even your watchman! 

Now I liked the Dwapara song immediately but if the song is neutral at first, if you go on listening to it then even an annoying song often “grow on us” after being played frequently on the radio or in playlists!

The reverse is also true! A familiar song gets very irritating on repeat plays! One such song is MY HEART WILL GO ON! Even though it was a big hit at the time, many simply cannot stand the song because it is too familiar!

Apparently if the initial reaction to something is strongly negative, repeated exposure can actually intensify that dislike rather than turning it into a preference!

Then again human brain is not so simple!

There is an apparent limit to the exposure! Liking typically increases with repetition up to a point—often around 10–20 exposures—after which excessive exposure can lead to boredom or annoyance!

So if you want to get over a song or an EAR WORM soon then you have to listen to that for at least 20 times! 

Then again do not think so much! The song DWAPARA is really nice! You do not have to put all the Freudian formula to it and spoil the art!

Music ka jawab nahi! Like Kapil ka jawab nahi!

Listen to it before you sleep!

Shubh ratri!

Lobotomy!

The novel Bellevue by Robin Cook starts with a description of a procedure which was performed so casually and normally that you would be shocked!

The discoverer of the procedure was given the Nobel prize!

It actually used the literal destruction of brain!

One of the patient was the kin of Kennedy!

The most shocking thing was that in spite of being a physician with no surgical training, there was a ‘neurologist’ who would perform more than 3000 such procedures!

He would develop a special ICEPICK for the procedure done without anesthesia!

The procedure would involve him literally stabbing a patient through the soft plate of the orbit into the brain and making a mince meat of the brain tissue!

The procedure was called Lobotomy! If you were impressed with the Batmobile then you will be shocked with the lobotomobile!

The one who popularized it was Walter Freeman!

Though he was not a trained surgeon, he performed approximately 3,500 to 4,000 lobotomies over four decades, often in non-surgical settings like private offices or mental hospitals.

In 1936, Freeman and neurosurgeon James Watts performed the first American prefrontal lobotomy, a surgical procedure requiring burr holes in the skull to sever neural fibers.

Freeman introduced a faster, cheaper method inspired by an Italian technique. He would tap a slender tool (an orbitoclast) through the thin bone of the eye socket into the brain using a mallet, then sweep it to sever connections in the frontal lobe!

Freeman traveled the U.S. in a van, nicknamed the “lobotomobile,” performing and teaching the transorbital procedure at psychiatric institutions to address overcrowding!

He even lobotomized the sister of John F. Kennedy called Rosemary Kennedy . The procedure left her permanently incapacitated and unable to speak more than a few words!

At age 12, Howard Dully was lobotomized by Freeman (authorized by his stepmother) for being “defiant”. He survived and later shared his story in the book and radio documentary My Lobotomy!

While Freeman claimed many successes, approximately 14% of his patients died from the procedure. Others were left in a vegetative state, became emotionally “flat,” or suffered severe cognitive impairment!

Freeman was banned from performing surgery in 1967 after a patient, Helen Mortensen, died of a cerebral hemorrhage during her third lobotomy by him!

Imagine doing the same savage procedure three times with the third causing death!

The issue here is not only was the procedure savage and crude, it was also the attitude where the ‘surgeon’ would actually treat ‘patients’ like animals (of course even animals MUST be treated well but that it another matter!)!

So the next time your doctor gives you a oral medication for a couple of days; you can trust him or her and take it without asking too many questions especially if he does not have an ICEPICK in his or her chamber!

That’s a joke of course!
Which reminds me of Jagathy Sreekumar and his funny acts! So sad that he can’t act much now…

Let’s dream of a miracle!

Shubh ratri…

W or L!


The other day on a quick visit to Bengaluru we had a nostalgic walk on the Church Street and Brigade road!

There were days when going to the Brigade road was the Bengaluru thing! Even now in spite of having so many iconic spots like the Commercial street or Jayanagar 4th block; going to the Brigade Road/Church street is still hep!

Of course you can’t even imagine doing that during the new year eve since the crowd will be huge! But we were there a couple of days before that and the crowd was lesser! Still crowded though!

After a long walk and a bowl of noodle soup and some vegetarian sushi (yeah! It exists!); I asked my son how was the day?

He said, “Appa it was a W!”

The rule for any parent of a Teen or going to be a teen soon child is that, if your child is telling you something with a smile, you just take it! Do not ask or dig further into it!

Of course later on I asked my daughter about it and she told me that W is a win!

Now I am wondering if I have to be happy that my son is happy or sad that he could have just said it was good instead of going the Gen z lingo way! But then again; like I said above, it is better to take the W! At least he did not say it was L!

So apparently in Gen Z slang, “W” stands for “Win,” signifying a positive outcome, success, or something good, often used to celebrate achievements or good decisions, while its opposite, “L,” means “Loss” or “Lose”. It’s used as a quick way to say “that’s a win” or “good job,” contrasting with “L” for something negative or a failure!

As parents of Gen Z kids you must watch out for your W!

It can be like “That movie was a total W; I loved it!” which is an adjective use!

Of it can be a statement of approval like above!  “You nailed that trip dad—what a W!”

Even in social media a caption a good photo with “Big W!” or comment “W”  is a way to tell that he or she liked it!

Then again be wary of the L!

It can be used in routine words like “You did not get a leave? Big L”.

Ladies and sometimes gents too! can watch out for statements from their teenage daughters like “You really killed that outfit, W”

The W and L of course are a result of the gaming culture and sports, where wins and losses are clearly marked!

Then again if the dictionary of the future adds it to the letters then it may be a big W for the Gen Z but a big L for English! I am not going to think about it and lose my S! I mean Sleep!

Just don’t listen to some old peppy number by Gurdas Maan then you may not get sleep!

I’m logging off! That’s good night Gen Z style!

Shubh ratri!

The year that was!




365 days 365 sketches!

365 blogs!

More than 30 book reviews!

That’s 2025!

My son had a project in which he was supposed to draw a camel; I saw him painstakingly try to get the legs right!

The proportions and the final structure was coming out slowly but he was not happy!

At one point I told him, “Why don’t you simply trace it!?”

He looked at me and said what I would have said if someone had suggested that to me! “That would not be right; I would not feel satisfied!”

I was proud of him!

Art needs truth!

Even if at first your work is not good, all you have to do is be consistent! Even if it does not look good (like my sketch and rarely blog sometimes!); I still post it!

Nowadays you can use the best tools to write a blog or make a sketch! But like my son says; I would not feel satisfied!

Of course many are gifted artists who can get these results faster; many like me need to be persistent and consistent and cannot take this lightly!

In the book mastery by Robert Greene it is said that you need at least 5-10 thousand hours to be a master! It roughly translates to around 6-10 years of consistent work!

So even if the work is busy like today when I saw more than fifty patients or the other day when I was travelling the whole day with no rest; you can still give around ten to fifteen minutes for your skill!

Just like your body needs your time, your mind also needs it! A sketch and a blog and the NYT puzzle corner are the three things I have to do if I have to sleep with a satisfaction of accomplishing something!

The aim is to make the blog readable and crisp! The issue is that writing a short one is more difficult! The ‘facts’ are taken verbatim to maintain authenticity but the topic and the whole text is pure ‘human’ and original! In this day and age though it is difficult to be neutral and clean! I try! Most of the time it works! I have a clear bias towards India and this ‘shows’ most of the time!
But apart from that I have no ulterior ‘motive’ since I have better things to do!

The sketch is usually of the birthday celebrity or someone ‘famous’ right now or someone whom I respect! Here the issue is when I sketch someone who is controversial when actually anyone can be controversial! I would urge then to look at his or her good stuff and ignore the bad! No one is perfect! Not the person I sketch or the person who is sketching them!

Sometimes though I may sketch someone ‘controversial’ for someone else but here also I have no personal affliction to him or her! It would simply have been his or her birthday or he or she would have won the Padma or some award! If he or she can win an award then me sketching him or her is a simple thing! It does not mean that he or she is my friend or I am his or her ‘agent’!

Then again since I also want to be an artiste one day, I have huge respect for artists! They have been given the gift to entertain and how! Like the sketch of the day; Chetan Anand! Even he is not perfect like my sketch!

So I try to see through the imperfections and sketch them! Imperfectly!

Then again that is life! It is not perfect! It simply goes on however it is…

Sharing both the sketch and the collage of 2025!

Let’s see how it’s goes!

Shubh ratri…

The nectar and the poison…is the same!

Sometimes the cause and the treatment of a condition may be the same!

The same thing can be poison or nectar!

The same water in dehydration is nectar while in heart failure is, well dangerous!

In ENT there is a complication called the oro antral fistula where you have fistula or abnormal communication between the oral cavity and the maxillary sinus or antrum. The interesting point here to note is that sometimes this is a complication of a surgery or surgical approach called the Caldwel Luc! More interesting is that sometimes the treatment is also by the same approach! The cause and the cure is the same in this case!

There’s a process called Photodecomposition!


This is a chemical reaction in which compounds are broken down by photons. The process is also known as photodissociation or photolysis. Any photon with a high wavelength can cause this reaction, including visible light!

The process is responsible for the creation of our ozone!

The ozone in the Earth’s atmosphere is created by photodecomposition
Ultraviolet light strikes oxygen molecules made up of two oxygen atoms
(02), and breaks them into separate atoms.
They then combine with unbroken 02 molecules to form ozone (03)!


Then again that is routine! What is unusual is that this same process causes the destruction of ozone in the earth’s atmosphere!

So the same process which creates also destroys the ozone layer!

Now do not get into the specifics, the root point here is that sometimes what is your greatest strength can also become your greatest weakness!

Being kind can be your strength but then if you are liable to be manipulated for your kindness then it becomes your weakness!

Then again you can be kind and generous and just don’t have any expectations and you will not get hurt!

Like J R D Tata! Remembering legends at the start of the year!

Shubh ratri…

The year begins!

Once upon and time and happily ever after!

Those were the tales we grew up with! Be it movies or stories; everyone is happy in the end! The villain is always defeated and the hero is always the winner!

The best thing is that you know who is the villain and who is the hero!

Who is your actual friend and who is your foe!

Then you grow up and realize that it is all a story! Then again sometimes your own story can be a fairy tale! But if you think about the real stories behind the fairy tales then you would realize that life is a fairy tale but only that it is unmodified!

In the story Pinocchio, when Pinocchio is teased about his wooden head by his cricket companion, the enraged puppet throws a hammer and kills him!

In Andersen’s telling of the little mermaid, the witch silences the little mermaid by cutting off her tongue! Also the little mermaid loses her prince to a human bride and smiles at him one last time as she and her sisters rise slowly to heaven!

In the actual stories of Cinderella, the evil stepmother hands a knife to the eldest of her two daughters, and orders her to cut her toe off to fit in the glass slippers!

In a version of Red Riding Hood, as a warning to young women to avoid sexual predators, he simply allows the flirtatious Little Red Riding Hood to be eaten by the big bad wolf!

And in Snow White; her evil stepmother is invited to Snow White’s wedding, where the guests heat a pair of iron shoes on burning coals. She’s then forced to step into the red-hot footwear and dance in agony, until she falls down dead!

Those are the real fairy tales! Real and tough…which is life…


It’s a fairly tale if something is named after you for perpetuity! Like the Boson named after Satyendra bose!

May the new year be like the fairy tale of your childhood like Boson!

Shubh ratri!

Happy new year Prabhu ji!

The last day or rather night of the year is the middle of the week! If you are travelling during the time you would not even realise how fast the time flies!

Your resolutions are getting formed and then getting broken just as soon!

The clubs are busy, streets are full of life and there is celebrations everywhere! If you had a good year then you will be so happy and hope that the coming year or years will be just as good! If you have had challenges then you should have hope that things will look better next year! There is always the next year!

You will meet your family and friends and may be have a party! Or like the good old days of the DD; stay at home and watch the idiot box which is just as entertaining though with the abundance of choice you actually feel left out! When we had only one channel; the late night DD new year special was the party to watch out for!

You had amazing stars and great personalities who would come and entertain us! Little did we know that it was all pre recorded! Even the count down! But it was still fun! Some neighbor would inevitably burst a fire cracker and we would all get to know that it is time to wish everyone!

The phone lines will be blocked and even later, the messages would not go through!
People would anticipate this and send messages as early as one week in advance! Some do not need to hurry and even wish one month after the beginning of the year!

These are what the average Homo Sapien who has made these ‘divisions’ of the year would do!

Then again you have these terms as the middle of the week or the end of the year and if you think rationally; these are only our concept!

For the animals and the trees and even the whole planet; except for the seasons which are the slow changes and the night and day which change faster; every day is the same!

The end of the year is only for us!

We have divided the year into the twelve months and we use them for everything in our life!

So if your wishes are unfulfilled or your quota of the ‘yearly’ happiness is not done or ‘met’ or your quota of ‘unhappiness’ is more then do not worry too much! Any day is the beginning and every day can be the end!

Years are only colorful symbols on your work calendar!

So just be patient, have hope and all will be ok; the next year!


May your ‘Prabhu’ bless you!

Shubh ratri and a very happy new year!

Shower effect…

What is the common link??

Archimedes shouting ‘Eureka!’
The number one singles by Ed Sheeran, Katy Perry and Lionel Richie!
40% of Pulitzer Prize winners in the last ten years!
The composer Ludwig van Beethoven’s musical genius and his many compositions!

In fact the list is much longer but don’t want the suspense to be!

All these creative juices (literally!) And ideas happened in the toilet! Yes! The loo is a big creative zoo!

There are several reasons why we (just as an example!) Have amazing ideas in the toilet! There is SHOWER EFFECT/WHITE NOISE EFFECT an DOPAMINE!

This “shower effect” apparently allows for a break from analytical thinking, enabling more unconventional and original thoughts to emerge.


The biggest reasons why the creative juices are flowing is because of lack of social media! If you install a water proof screen in the toilet then you can finally say good bye to creativity!

The lack of external stimuli, such as emails and social media, in a bathroom allows the brain to “blink” and activate the insight pathway to solve problems! In fact as told in the novel Secret of secrets; once the brain is removed from all the distractions it is finally free to perform wonders!

Also the warm water of a shower and the general environment of a bathroom promotes a relaxed state , lowering stress and allowing the mind to wander freely!

Then you have the “White Noise” Effect! The sound of running water can act as white noise, blocking out other distractions and creating a calm, meditative state! In fact if you are reading, you can get the same benefit if you listen to music but make sure it is instrumental or even simply white noise!

This state of relaxation and internal focus is characterized by alpha brain waves, which help make the brain more open to remote associations from the right hemisphere of the brain!

Finally you have the Dopamine Release!

A relaxed and happy mood, often achieved in a bathroom, can be linked to the release of dopamine, a hormone that improves mood and enhances creative thinking!

Also when you are taking bath or using the toilet; you do not have any other ‘work’ going on! Then this is like a transition or the bathroom acts as an “incubation” environment for ideas, allowing the mind to process information and make new connections without the pressure of direct problem-solving!

The composer Ludwig van Beethoven’s musical genius is partly attributed to his early morning bathing rituals!

So maybe next time anyone complains that you or someone is spending too much time in the loo, maybe he or she is thinking the next Noble (or Nobel!) Idea! Just guide him or her to write it down though otherwise it may get washed down the drain literally!

Then again, the most important thing in the world is balance! Just because you get some good ideas in the loo; please do not make it a habit! ‘Loo’brary is not the place to read! Library is better!

Of course it is a natural thing so there should not be any shame in the bathroom effect!

Some talented people though would be the best everywhere!

Like R. Sundarrajan and his movies with great comic timing!

Now spend the second last night of the year in a blissful quiet with your eyes closed! In other ways; sleep!

Shubh ratri!

Clock does not wait!

In older clocks especially with heavy hands you would notice that the seconds hand moves a little faster while coming down!

While it is a little slow when it climbs up! The time it gains to come down is usually equal to the extra time it takes to go up!

The net effect is that no time is effectively lost! That’s the effect of gravity!

This is what Kepler says in his second law!

Kepler’s Law of Equal Areas, or Kepler’s Second Law, states that a line connecting a planet to the Sun sweeps out equal areas in equal time intervals, meaning planets move faster when closer to the Sun (perihelion) and slower when farther away (aphelion).

This demonstrates the conservation of angular momentum in elliptical orbits, as the planet’s speed changes to maintain a constant rate of area swept over time.


In fact in zero gravity a flame of a candle is blue and round! But under pressure you get the typical colours and features!


Practically though it means that do not worry if your start is slow! You will make up eventually!

Just like How the Ramayana by Ramanand Sagar started so slowly but then it is still a legendary piece of television!

Now start your slow pace towards the bed!

Shubh ratri…